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Escaping Standards: 12# unconventional FLOW-hacks to become the person you really love (Marco Giannecchini)
You are powerful and nobody can stop you, when you really:
> BELIEVE in yourself
> when you CHALLENGE the status quo, escaping the standards of your environment > when you FEEL & KNOW that you are capable of anything;
> in doing that your mind will BE your „personal success coach“.
You are beautiful, when your strengths and determination shines, as you follow your own compass on your personal path – when you aren’t afraid of the obstacles along the way.
You are unstoppable, when you let your mistakes educate you, as your confidence builds from experiences; when you know you can fall down, pick yourself up, and move forward, upgrading constantly your brain softwares and evolving.
Here are 12 unconventional FLOW hacks to become the person you really love:
Think, dream, feel, be.– When it comes to living at the highest level of personal performance, the biggest challenge for every human being is learning to think about a better future version of oneself, to dream this new life, to feel as it would be already a reality and to be the upgraded version of the former one.
Your Passions are the matrix of your reality desktop.– Accept all your passions. Be you, just the way you are, in the beautiful way only you know how. The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or noone else will either. And when you are truly comfortable in your own skin, not everyone will like you, but you will start to create the new matrix of your life, based on your emotional needs and dreams.
You are your thoughts.– Don’t lose YOURSELF in your search for acceptance by others. Be aware that you will always appear to be a little less than some people prefer you to be, but that most people are unaware that you are so much more than what they see. You are good enough just the way you are. You have nothing to prove to anyone else. Care less about who you are to others and more about who you are to yourself and your thoughts. Because „reality“ is not something which exists outside, „reality“ is a product of your thoughts!
Be accountable for your own happiness.– We often accept the love we think we deserve. And we make our happiness dependent from the judgment of others. Be your own Chief Happiness Officer, care about your own happiness as something to work daily on and finally reward yourself every time you have accomplished something valuable by your own.
Learn everyday from smart people who are better than you.– Learning from everyone around you is increasingly valuable. Spend a lot of time sitting down, talking with remarkable people and learning their stories. You learn much more about the world by listening to (or reading) how other distinguished people experience it. You can learn how to be an entrepreneur through the stories of mentors’ successes and failures. You can learn how to run your own company through conversations with small business owners about how they work and by listening to how a former boss learned how to be a good manager. And you can learn how to be a teammate by reading about examples of successful teams.
Just go with the Flow– There are certain people / situations, who/which aren’t meant to fit into your life no matter how much you want them to. Maybe you cannot change all the game rules, but you can play in the best way you can the cards you get in to your hands. it’s just you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself for something better in the future, going with the flow.
Celebrate your ideal life every single day.– Of all the things that can be stolen from you – your possessions, your youth, your health, your words, your rights – what noone can ever take from you is your freedom to celebrate your ideal life every day, to choose what you will believe in, and who and what your heart will love going forward. Life begins where your fear and resentment ends. Just because someone hurt you yesterday, doesn’t mean you should hate the world, or start living life today in constant fear of being hurt tomorrow. When you forgive yourself and others, and stop the inner imprisonment, you’re creating the ideal life.
Zoom on the positive – unsharp the negative.– Do not let the pain make you hopeless. Do not let the negativity wear off on you. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Even though others may disagree with you, take pride in the fact that you still know the world is a beautiful place. Change your thoughts and you change your reality. Our thoughts are the makers of our moods, the inventors of our dreams, and the creators of our will. That is why we must sort through them carefully, and choose to respond only to those that will help us build the life we want, and the outlook we want to hold as we’re living it.
Become the one you are capable to be.– The real purpose of your life is to evolve and grow into the „whole person“ you are capable of being. There is already a plan of this „whole person“ in your DNA. Have a mind that is open to everything and attached to nothing. Changing really is always possible – there is no ability that can’t be developed with experience. Don’t ever let your negative beliefs stand in the way of your own improvement.
Use the power of your imagination to accomplish the goals that are meaningful to YOU.– Never put off or give up on a goal that’s important to you. Not because you still have tomorrow to start or try again, but because you may not have tomorrow at all. Life is shorter than it sometimes seems. Follow your heart today.
Edit your mental „Fear-Scripts“ and move ahead – Moving on doesn’t mean you have forgotten; it means you have accepted what happened in the past and choose to continue living in the present. Moving on doesn’t mean you’re giving up; it means you’re giving yourself another chance by making a choice to be happy rather than hurt. Through all the problems you have faced, the burdens weighing down on your shoulders, the pain in your heart, you have only one thing to say, “I survived and I now know better for next time.”
Enjoy the new version of yourself – In the end, loving yourself is about enjoying your life, trusting your own feelings, taking chances, losing and finding happiness, cherishing the memories, and learning from the past. Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not exactly how you planned, but just how it’s meant to be.